BOYZ

this a continous of crystal's post called boys. i just thoght i would change the last letter for kicks. but yes BOYZ!!! everyone seems to have troubles lately. yes, even me. although i wouldn't call them troubles. just concerns. i use to be a preacher of don't let the boy tell u what to do. but what happens if it's five years latter and he is not telling u what to do but highly suggesting. and u know he will be angry but he has not right to be angry. and knows that. but he is still angry. ooh, and my favorite one what if u hate how he plays computer games when u go up to see him. but u know he likes them. and u like him. and u don't want to change him. but hello computer games or me. or what happens if he acts completly different in public than he does when it's just the two of you. what do you do? do you yell.......and get angry. NO BECAUSE THAT WON'T SOLVE ANYTHING. do you wait for him to tell you why he does the things he does.... NO BECAUSE PATIENCE IS OVERRATIED. do you tell him you'll break up with him if he doesn't change. if he doesn't stop drinking coke or playing video games. NO BECAUSE THAT WILL ONLY CAUSE MORE FIGHTS.

SO WHAT DO YOU DO?

when he plays video games, u take a nap or watch t.v. if he want's another, coke get him one. if he is angry talk, about it don't yell. and while your waiting for him to tell you why he feels or acts the way he does, just sit and hold each other until he is ready. i guess it all comes down to trust and friendship. of course you won't always like what you friends do...or in some cases how they treat you. but if you love them, then u look past it. i finally have come to the conclusion it's friendship that lasts. and with out that in a realtionship with another significant other you will always fight about cokes and computer games.

WORD OF THE DAY

adjudicate: To employ judicial procedure as a means of hearing and settling a case. To adjudicate is to have a judge or someone in authority reach a decision on some difficult point. It is usually reserved to describe processes of resolution within a legal setting.

Gentlemen, if this case is hard for you to argue, rest assured it is equally difficult for me to adjudicate.

Kyle and i don't need to adjudicate anything because we are not married. and since we are not married we don't need to get a divorce. and since we don't need a divorce, we don't need to adjucicate anything.